The last visit hearing resulted in the judge taking under advisement. Which means she has 60 days to make a decision wether or not visits will be cancelled. Please keep in mind next Tuesday begins the severance hearing. And last week, bug was sick on the couch because the visit aide allowed bio m to feed her whatever she brought from home. We started therapy today. Total joke. The therapist is brand new and has no idea how to address the sexualized behaviors. We should be going to a speciality provider but who I am to know this. I do like her. She's sweet and Bug likes her but I'm just being realistic. She's living with a therapist. We need specialty treatment... Bug is doing great. Greater than great. Tuesday's continue to be a struggle but overall, she is doing phenomenal.
Sissy and Chunk
We have an interim DCS case manager. I'm really hoping we can keep her. I really like her and she's on top of her stuff but she told me she's temporary. We had a very good meeting a few days ago. Bio m is doing so good!!! I am so proud of her. And to be honest, my heart doesn't even hurt thinking about losing the girls. I'm more excited to be a part of this moms reunification with her girls. I will cry buckets of tears. Especially over loosing Chunk, but not one professional believed in this mom. I did. And I supported her and encouraged her and look at her!!! 6 months of sobriety after 21+ years of substance use. I couldn't be prouder of her!!! So the transition has begun. First, increased visits. I'm excited to see the girls spend more time with her. I'm Chunks attachment figure so it's going to be hard for her. But mom can attach and will attach to her. Sissy will take time. She doesn't trust. It takes time to really understand her and she's been removed 5 times. She's going to need some time to rebuild with her new and improved mom.
That's the update so far. I'm sure I will have a total meltdown Tuesday morning. For now, one day at a time and I'm giving it to god.
-K
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